You have a female friend who you want to ask out but don’t have the courage to express your feelings. Maybe there’s a girl in your class who you have wanted to get closer to for ages but didn’t know how. Is there any colleague of yours whom your are just dying to know if she likes you back? Or you are already hanging out together but things are still not clear?
Have you racked your brain with never-ending questions such as, “Does she like me?”, “Does she still have the same feelings after all this time?” “Does she sees me only as her best friend?”. I understand this feeling, it is very frustrating when you find yourself in a limbo and can’t focus on other women.
Boys if you want to find out how she really feels about you, it’s time to make a move or move on. Don’t waste your time and hers too.
Yes, you read it right! Kiss her and see if she’s interested. That’s the best and direct solution to your problems.
Make eye contact and speak out
Start with a random conversation and if she keeps glancing at you, be direct and tell her what’s in your mind for her.
This might sound direct but it is a fact that if you flirt and she reciprocates or doesn’t rebut your advances, she has the same feelings.
Also read: First Move, What Do You Make Of Girls Who Make It?
Be clear with your intentions
Don’t be discouraged even after all your flirting, she still doesn’t reciprocate. Some women really need to be hit over the head with the whole thing. At this point, you have got one move left: ask her what she wants. Quick & dirty.
Write a message to her
I know this is direct and a daunting situation. Once written, the message is out there. Just hope she writes back to accept your feelings.
If none of these methods work and your heart is pounding so hard that you can barely breathe, then please let her go and move on. Don’t waste your and her time.