It’s a probable trap, we warn at the very beginning. Someone else is actually complicated! If your beau is saying it, definitely there’s a big game going on in his mind. And what that game is – that is totally unpredictable. Maybe he wants to test you and your loyalty. What do you want? Do you actually want to do it? Otherwise, why would he say so because no man can share his lady love with someone else. Moreover, this statement also raises doubts over the loyalty of your man. Is he not interested in the relationship any more, or does he simply not need you? So my dear you need to figure it out very carefully! But KHURKI suggests you to be loyal to yourself first and ask these questions to yourself….
What does he mean?
I’m not asking you to be judgmental, but be wise and try to figure out whether it was just a joke or was he really serious? Try to get closer and understand him if you actually love him.
Why did he say this?
Was that the result of any of your mistake or any type of disturbance going on in your relationship that made him say so, or it’s his own will?
Is this what you wanted?
I know every girl needs some freedom in every relationship, but don’t you think it sounds more like the “end” of you relationship than “freedom for you”. Because seeing you move on, he can also move on. Would you be able to see him with someone else?
Are you comfortable with this situation?
This statement should ring a bell for you that something is definitely wrong…You shouldn’t be comfortable until and unless you know it was just a joke.
Is this a possible situation for long term?
Would you be able to do justice to any of the relationships in a long run. You can have lot of friends, but love – you better keep it to the one and the only love of your life.
Does someone else make you feel good?
No, this shouldn’t happen. And if there’s someone who makes you feel good about it, then you are at fault baby.
Don’t you think it would be digging your own grave?
By doing this you will give him a fair chance to ditch you in future, that too without any prior notice.