Your mom dislikes the girl you love because of her looks. Moms are moms, they want the best for their children. Same is with yours. If you have chosen a girl who is not that beautiful as your mother would have dreamt, then she will obviously react. But again, relationships are all about love and bonding and if you love her, then make your mother see her inner beauty. It’s just that she loves you and wants the best for you, so just try to convince her that the girl you have chosen is the best!
Don’t get upset with your mother
Getting upset with your mother will also upset this would-be relationship. So don’t create such chances if mom dislikes the girl, as you will mess up all the possibilities of acceptance. Try to convince her.
Fix up their meetings
Getting to know each other is the best way for the ice to melt. Both the women in your life will be able to see beyond the outer beauty. They will understand each other. Be a part of the initial meetings, but afterwards let them talk and share their experiences.
Ask your love to get ready for everything
This is something that will give her a chance to win over your mother’s heart. Is it something fake or are you trying to cheat your mother? No it’s not that. It’s just making an impression through some efforts. Moreover, buttering is sometimes delicious. 😉
Response of your mother
Try to ask about those meetings, try to understand your mother’s feelings through her eyes and expressions and don’t let her see your impatience for her response. Otherwise, be prepared for her belan 😛
You don’t talk much on phone
Don’t talk much on phone to the love of your life when home because this will only add fuel to the fire, as your mother’s dislike will turn into jealousy. That will not be good for the future of this would-be relationship.
Talk about inner beauty
Ones behaviour and goodness is all that matters in the end and if your mom dislikes the girl because of her looks, then make subtle attempts at praising the inner beauty. But don’t let your mother know that you are indirectly praising her.
Assure your mother that love will multiply after marriage
There’s a sudden insecurity in the mother’s mind that she will lose her son to her daughter-in-law after marriage. So assure her that your love will not be divided between both of them but it will multiply for both of them. I’m sure she will get convinced by this.
