It might have been a couple of years since you guys broke up with each other and a lot must have changed in those years, but still there is always something deep inside you to know what he/she is up to. But meeting your ex after a long time can be unnerving. So if you are planning to meet your ex, then follow these tips and get through the meeting in style.
Don’t let him catch you off guard
Don’t even think of bringing up too many old jokes or past experiences in front of him that might make him think you are still thinking about him.
Wear a sexy outfit that suits you a lot
If you are meeting at a common friend’s marriage, look extra hot to see your ex’s jaw dropping reaction. It would definitely be worth the money spent by you on your dress 😉
Muster up your confidence before you rush into him. Think of all the good things you have been doing without him and slip them to him. You will surely feel great doing it.
Don’t talk much about your new guy
Just in case he asks about your current relationship, just play down your beau’s attributes. That’s it and move on to another topic.
Remember why you broke up
Your impulse might be to get back with him if you see him and he looks good, but you have to realize why you broke up with him in the first place. Think, do I really want to get myself in that situation again? It might not be the best idea….
Avoid drinking too much
You might end up hooking up with him…so better be careful.
Don’t forget his/her flaws
Remember all the little things he/she did to drive you crazy. It will keep you smiling as you remember why you are so much better off after a breakup.
Control your feelings
Don’t hook up with him. Naturally, when you come across each other after so many years you might develop the same feelings you had before breakup and end up sleeping together. Bad idea!!
But if your case is completely opposite and you want your ex back in your life, follow all the points but in reverse.