Love is blind and jealous too. Most of the relationships ends just ‘coz of jealous conflicts. Jealousy is a killer.
This is not a rare emotion. Every one feels or undergoes this emotion every now and then. Jealousy can bring you down and even pull your relationship apart. It can also be a signal to you that it’s time to either make a change or change something in your life that will allow you to move on to the next stage of your emotional growth.
So rather than letting jealousy controlling your relationship, start trying to control it. We havev reasons for whatever we are saying….why jealousy is considered a completely useless emotion and how it affects us…
It makes us angry, scared, insecure and low on confidence
This will effect your health. So, if you will let jealousy get heavy on you, you will be among those who fear about everything and be mentally and physically ill.
Ruins your relations
When one of your friend achieves something that you have always wanted to but didn’t, you do feel jealous about it. This is human nature. But don’t let this overpower you, else you will end up ruining your relationship. Try to tackle it before it gets the better of your relationship.
Takes your soulmate/partner away
Are you jealous?? Then you are not in love. Yes you heard it right!! When someone flirts with your girl, you start doubting your soulmate. Build trust, as it is the pillar of any relationship and don’t let jealousy prevent you from trusting your loved one and take away your special someone away from you.
It leaves you alone & miserable
At the end, you are left alone, sad and miserable. You will start feeling miserable about yourself, as no one will be there with you. So stop jealousy, start appreciating and loving everyone.
End of social life
If you allow jealousy to get the better of you, then all you will have in mind is how to insult someone and prove your superiority. No one likes to be around such people. After all, who wants to spoil their mood as people gather socially to have fun and to forget about their problems.
Will break your family relations
Jealousy is believed to be bad and many families have broken because of it. Fights, land disputes, joint families turning nuclear are all because of this emotion of jealousy.
Destroys your career
When someone in office you hate gets a promotion, you will try to insult them. Many a times, you might even bad mouth a person you are jealous of and this will affect your career adversely.
Can turn you into a criminal
Don’t ever let jealousy make you take such decisions that you may regret later. Most of the times, many people take to a wrong path in order to take revenge and these decisions taken out of anger and jealousy can ruin their lives.