There are people who are extroverts and introverts, but there is one more category ambiverts. A person who has the balance of both the above mentioned. Making it clearer, for those who fall under both the categories forms the third one.
There are times when you feel like talking to every other person, and other times when you want no talks at all. You are always in this dual personality mode. No this is not about you don’t want to talk to people when you are sad. It is for those who loves to be silent even when they are happy or normal. The mood has nothing to do with it, or at least not completely responsible. And all these categories have struggles of their own, and toughest are of the rarest. The people who are neither introverts nor the extroverts, but the ambiverts.
People think you are an introvert
When you feel like not talking to others. Or may be when you are so complete with yourself. People judge you for an introvert, which certainly you are not. And obviously wouldn’t want to be remembered as one.
People think you are an extrovert
Oh the times when you are a people’s person. The times you want to reach out to every single person possible. And someone out there is still living with the impression that you are one big time extrovert.
You are a two in one for real
Who knows it better than you? People who are living with you, or your friends. That you are a two different people living in the same body. That might be normal for you but for others it is weird.
You have to explain yourself a lot
For those who have seen both shades of yours are quite confused about you. And makes you confuse with weird questions. Those who see an extrovert in you for the first time will ask if you are high on something. And those who see the introvert for the first time will think you are dumped by your girlfriend or your dog died.
People make fun of you for Multiple Personality Disorder
And where there are friends there are insults. Your friends tease you for having multiple personality disorder. schizophrenic is a teasing name given to you by those who know you.
You understand people, but people don’t return that favour
This is simply the worst thing that happens a lot with you. You can understand the different moods of people, but people can’t even understand your one mood.
You want frequent change
Change is the only thing permanent. You completely go buy the saying. A person like you would not even go to work via same route everyday.
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