The natural flow of family life is the brother and sister fights. This is the most common issue in every family.
It may be the girl or the boy, who is elder, fighting with younger ones over a piece of cake or a bicycle ride – but is just fun. Some fight for the sake of things not being distributed equally or some due to more pampering of the other.
But apart from these silly fights, there is that one concern for each other that make this relation more special. An elder sister or elder brother always tries to make their younger ones happy by sacrificing their own needs and always keep them safe from harm.
Besides every teasing and crazy things elder sibling do, they always protect and love you. Here are the ways how they love you.
They will always help you financially
“Bhaiya Mujhe Paise Chahiye”
Elder siblings love to take on a father figure type role when it comes to their younger siblings. This means helping them out financially.
Shoulder to cry on
Didi, Mummy ne Marraaaa…
Their protective nature will always defend you from Mumma’s daant and will give comfortable shoulder to cry on. This binds the relation more tightly.
Teaches you to be cool
Hey chotu!! Bhaiya’s got dress-alike-clothes for both of us.
Teaches you self defense
To protect yourself from bad situation this is what you learn from your elder siblings.
Will always talk on your behalf to parents
Mummy! Chutki wants to holiday with her friends, let her go. Don’t wry and trust me she will take care of herself. You can completely rely and count on your elder siblings for anything you want.
Teaches you to laugh at yourself and be silly
A lot of times elder siblings play pranks and that teaches you to not take life so seriously and be able to laugh at yourself.
You will get to marry the one you love
Elder siblings will always be in your support if your decision is right.
Always surprises you
When you are having a bad day and just want to shut out the world, you are often surprised by your elder brother and sister to lift your spirits.
They can’t be angry with you for so long
No matter how old they get, they will still consider you as their little sister/brother and will always be cute to them.