Meeting the love of your life…it’s like entering a dream world but what do you think how difficult is it? Well, according to me it’s very difficult because we don’t actually understand what love is? We all have different definitions of love and we try to find the “love of our life” according to those definitions and not “Love”. We try to match that person with our aspirations, our desires and our needs instead of trying to accept him for what he is…we have our own pre-conceived notions. Break the notion and listen to what KHURKI has to say. Here are some tips how you can actually meet the love of your life because we think that to meet the actual “love of your life” you have to be the actual “you” first.
Don’t try to change yourself for the sake of love because it is not what you think. If he wants to you to change, then it is love with conditions applied. But if you want to change yourself, then think: would you be able to live that change for all times?
Don’t promise something you can’t fulfil
Those promises will surely please him but would make you uneasy for the rest of your life. But if you are okay with it, then go on make yourself uncomfortable.
Don’t pretend for any reason
Sometimes, you don’t want to leave him at any cost and for this you pretend to be what he wants you to be and that’s what you are actually not. This will satisfy him but what about you and your individuality? Are you ready to pretend for a lifetime?
Don’t hide something
If you truly love him and want to stay with him forever, then don’t hide your past. Because only your love for him will make no point and if he loves you, he’ll accept you with your past and the way you are.
Stick to your point
We are not asking you to be adamant but yeah don’t say yes to any restrictions imposed by him, as by doing it you will create a mess for the both of you due to this compromise.